20110328

Update!

Just a quick one before heading to bed
Went to Genting with the coursemates during the sem break (the last)
3 Days and 2 nights
But time passes so fast ~
Maybe because we stays inside the casino for quite some time
Overall, the wealth luck is pretty good...most of them won

I think we shall plan another trip before graduate...
Hill or beach?


Alright...be right back...
Hope it wont take so long ~
*Rushing assignments and FYP*
Alarm rang!!!!


20110318

Hong Kong Disneyland Part 1 !!!

Back to my childhood time ~
Feels super duper excited that day...
Jump here and there like a big kid
Sooo H-A-P-P-Y


Taking MRT



The Entrance


My Mickey Mouse ticket entrance


Lil bro Stitch ticket entrance


First spotted them
Please scroll down ~


Adorable and cute


Arrived Fantasyland to meet Disney Princesses
The Kingdom (got fireworks at night time)


Sleeping beauty ~ She's so beautiful

Belle ~ Another lovely lady



Next pit stop
Watch Mickey Mouse in 3D




 
Adventureland ~





Going to watch The Golden Mickeys





Love 'em


TO BE CONTINUED ~


20110313

Sharing

The first time I read this article was like a year ago ~
Last night when Im having my stupid insomnia, I read one's blog
She posted this article and so I wanted to share with you guys too ~

MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

After reading this article... I really drop my tears...
Do cherish everything besides you ~
Once you decided to hold her/his hands you are supposed to hold her/him until death.


20110312

周杰伦 in the House

Suddenly got the urge to post about 周杰伦超時代演唱會
Although its 2am now

Jay Chou really did a great job here...
People were so high~ Including me of course
Screaming until lose my voice...hehe
And I need to thanks 'xiao ang ang' aka boss for the ticket...well...should be millions of thanks
Both of his siss are nice...



Alright...photo above is not belong to me...
I just want to show you the people...
Im sitting at the opposite side

The concert begins with Jay Chou in 3D or 4D...i dont know
And then DANG DANG














Jay Chou duet with Lara (Snake Dance)



Mmm...please forgive me as I cant recall all so I will let the pictures to do the talking







Jay Chou can dance! Like seriously pro




Surrounded by hot chicks (BTW...I thought Msia wont let them wear like this)



C'mon baby...lets singalong~




Jay with his red orangish mic~
And what's next??!
P.I.A.N.O
The part where everyone waiting for
He is so talented...the way he plays the piano just make the heart melts




The piano is just so special and truly belong to him - 周杰伦
Pink roses were on the piano
If Iam not mistaken...he plays 3 songs...


He dance again~ Actually he dance more than that


4D show back again
The effects are like WOW


So many Jay Chou ~ ~
Guess who is the real one...hehe


Special guest named Gary
Jay Chou bring along four special guests to his concert
First was Lara
Second - Cindy Yuan
Third - Lan Hua Bros
Fourth - Gary



The first part of ENCORE



Jay Chou and Lara duet Shan Hu Hai
Fans all singalong with them

The second as well as last part of ENCORE
Jay Chou sang 7 Li Xiang and Nunchucks if Iam not mistaken
When he sang Nunchucks
Its like the most 'high' part
Fans get to interact with him with 'Her Her Haa Hee'
And everyone stood up


It is a very awesome concert
When the time he express his feeling on the screen (xiao ang ang translated to me)
I almost cry
He thanks to his fans for supporting and accompany him for the ups and downs throughout the 10 years
And showed back his previous albums, songs, movies, awards which we get to know him for the very first time
周杰伦 YOU ARE THE MAN
And see you in April-May in Malaysia
Hope you will be back for more incredible concerts and movies
Love you <3